Today's mantra: "She has a heart of gold"
I'm using this because we have a decades old unresolved thing that may never be resolved. Usually, when my attention turns to her, my mind clicks in, attempting to develop better understanding or approaches or generally to fix this thing that is not ready to be fixed or may never be fixed. But by using this mantra, I can cut through all that think-y malarkey to what really counts. And let my energy steep in the truth of it. She really does. And my heart can be satisfied with that.